2 / 5See Less
Overall rating by Disappointed
Ease of use40%
My parents coerced me to join the site, but I recently had to call the cops on a member. While getting to know the member, he was asking inappropriate questions and asking for pictures of certain body parts. I rejected his interest, because I knew he wasn't serious. He then started harrassing me on the phone making sexual threats, name-calling etc. The sad part is is that shaadi.com includes your cell phone number on your profile to maximize your responses.
I wouldn't pick up his calls, but he would leave LONG messages taling about how "If you mess with me, I'm coming to your house to do this and that (insert sexual act here)" or "Don't whine about calling the cops. You're a fake and ugly b*tch." This is all b/c I rejected his interest and wouldn't answer his questions or show him the photos that he wanted. Sadly, the cops just said to change my number. They wouldn't do anything else to protect me from him.
Other people I have talked to weren't as bad, BUT they weren't looking for anything serious either. If you're looking for a fling, why the heck are you on a marriage site? Go to adultfriendfinder.com for godsakes. Are you that desperate that you have to pretend to be serious about someone to get some?
My parents were thinking that this site is so wonderful, but it's not. After calling the cops on this member, I'm completely turned off and don't want to get into that situation again.
Please stay away and stay safe.