t Seeking
57 Ratings 3.18 / 5
Ease Of Use
Quick Facts
Cost 1 Month $59.95
Popularity 399,000 active users
Gender make-up Men/women equal
(1 to 1)
No gender bias

Seeking (Originally SeekingArrangement) is a website where financially well-off individuals, mostly men, can meet people of lesser financial means. The site has around 399,000 members, and has membership packages starting at $59.95 per month. Women don't have to pay to use the site.

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Stop wasting time on dating sites. Find a mutually beneficial relationship Quickly and Secretly

If you're seeking an arrangement between a successful man and a sexy woman, SeekingArrangment (now called Seeking) was created for you.

Why try Seeking?

Many wish they could find a mutually beneficial relationship, but have lingering doubts. Seeking allows people to live out their fantasies without judgement. It allows young women to live the lifestyle they deserve safely and discreetly.

"I wish I could do this but I'm worried about being found out or judged."

A mutually beneficial arrangement may be more honest and direct, without the emotional baggage of a traditional relationship. It can seem unfair that society places a stigma on this, but many relationships involve men who provide resources in return for connection with beautiful women.

Luckily, Seeking was built around ensuring it's users don't have to worry about their protection, being found out or judged. Premium features allow you to hide certain parts of your profile, giving you enhanced privacy and safety.

Seeking Key Features

  • Attracts the best quality (hottest or most generous) due to its strong reputation

  • Safety features like Background check ensure worry free connections

  • One of the top arrangement sites in the world

  • Flexible membership plans

Seeking has been around for years and continually improves the platform and user experience. Its ease of use and high quality membership have made it stand above in the adult dating scene. With it's emphasis on user safety and experience, it's easy to see why it's become the number one site for mutual arrangements.

How to use Seeking

Signup takes a few minutes: you will say whether you're a sugar daddy or sugar baby, describe yourself and what you're looking for.

You'll also be asked to describe your income level, habits, and other qualities that others on the site may want to know before meeting. You can always add more detail or change them later if you want.

Searching Profiles

Seeking allows you to find what you're looking for quickly and easily. You can narrow searches by distance, age, height, ethnicity, habits (smoking/drinking) and a handful of others.

Is Seeking worth it?

Seeking allows you to sign up and browse other profiles for free. This is a good way to check out the site and get a feel for the other members on the site. But unless you're a sugar baby, you won't be able to get hookups from the site without a premium membership.

Premium Benefits

What sets Seeking apart is the high quality of users compared to other dating sites. You'll need to upgrade to a Premium membership to connect with anyone you want from the site. Premium membership may seem costly, but you get what you pay for.

Can you use other dating sites for free? Absolutely. But you'll also end up with lots of fake profiles, time wasters, and generally lower standards than what you'll find on premium sites like Seeking. In a sense, the people using the site are the "cream of the crop" since the barrier to entry is higher. There's also a load of premium benefits like:

  • Sugar babies can search for sugar daddies by income and net worth

  • Inbox filters to help you keep on top of your conversations

  • Privacy features that allow you to protect certain information like location and last login.

  • Multiple locations for your profile, if you travel or split time in different places.


Seeking is the best site for people looking for mutually beneficial relationships. It allows you to cut to the chase and find a generous sugar daddy or a hot sugar baby without dealing with time wasters. Premium membership is more costly than other sites, but you can check out other users for free and the high bar to entry keeps the quality of membership among the best out there.

Rating from 57 customers

5 Star: (19)

4 Star: (7)

3 Star: (11)

2 Star: (9)

1 Star: (8)

Total 57 Ratings
8 Reviews
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    ohdanayMay 19th, 2020


    looking for someone new must be young, pretty, exciting, not afraid to show emotion and kind. I am a professional business owner & financially secure.
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    hal0benderApril 14th, 2019


    Banned for no reason. I was suspended permanently for absolutely no reason that I can think of and not even given a refund for my remaining money. I was always careful and never discussed anything illegal. has gone downhill hard and fast. Something will come along to fill the void. This after being a loyal member for over 2 years. Talk about shooting your own customers. I have heard other stories from other men. Apparently someone can get you banned without even a day in court or a warning.
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    CuroousFebruary 24th, 2019


    I just terminated my membership to SA after being a loyal member for over 3 years. It was great in the beginning, with high quality women seeking more out of life. Unfortunately, ever since Backpage was shut down, the prostitutes and scammers have flocked to this site. Don't be fooled, SA is now a prostitution website. This is why Apple banned them from having an app. If you're looking for a hooker, this is a great place. If you're looking for a SD/SB arrangement, you'll have to look somewhere else.
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    MasoveliJune 12th, 2018

    Just average

    I want to quote words from a sugar mommy's profile, "What I'm Looking For
    If you think you found a sugar mommy, please move along. The time and attention I will be spending with you is more than enough of a reward

    Physical attraction is important - do not msg me if you are not fit and attractive.
    Im looking to meet once or twice a month, phone calls in between and so forth - NSA
    Younger, preferably

    I do like to dominate men, but its not required."

    The whole reason I joined the site was to get a sugar mommy. Is this some kind of a bad joke?
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    BryanLookAlikeMarch 24th, 2018


    Girls, I've been on the site for about two months and have found the women to be almost universally attractive, warm and remarkably intelligent. I'm having trouble however in getting women I'm interested in to respond. I'm a reasonably good looking guy, fit and active, but because I am prominent and known, I can't put up a picture of myself and I think that is why women don't show an interest. Understandable of course, but nonetheless frustrating. I'd be happy to provide pictures on email, but can't trust the site to have that on record (remember the Ashley Madison scandal), so ... if interested check out my profile - Thanks - Doug
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    cutecollegeDecember 5th, 2017

    Just average

    I joined and got an email later about all the stuff they were adding. I email back with some comments.... maybe they will give me some $$$$. I liked it.
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    jacoborNovember 2nd, 2017

    Below average

    i am man who is looking for reliable woman that will help me
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    qwqwMarch 17th, 2017


    why is not leting me do any thing no chat or winkin
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    richard1234March 2nd, 2017

    Above average

    I was dating a lady and fell for her but she told me the site had told her that my profile had " reported" her and deleted her profile. Naturally she was very upset. However I certainly did not " report" her. Does anyone know how I can prove I did not? This is ruining our relationship
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    JimCrandallMay 28th, 2016

    Just average

    I am interested in meeting a lady I can help who is interested in pursuing a relationship on a mutually agreeable level.
Seeking 3.18 57 A review of Seeking (Formerly SeekingArrangement). Seeking (Originally SeekingArrangement) is a website where financially well-off individuals, mostly men, can meet people of lesser financial means.