Plenty Of Fish

Dating sites that are free attract people who are not serious about it. If you have a stigma about being on-line, don't go on-line. Seriously. Join a local co-ed bowling team or take a cooking class or do something else you like -- oh wait that costs money too. Don't take this the wrong way; I'm a cheapskate... but life costs money. If meeting someone special is important, you can spend the money off-line or on-line; your choice.

Anyway, POF is in general not a bad site; their navigation is a bit goofy and trying to find certain features -- like closing your account -- is a pain, but the search feature is solid and their chemistry match thing is interesting (but I can't say it's all that informative). And they do a good job of keeping out scammers, unlike some other places (girlsdateforfree, I'm looking at you).