OKCupid

I started talking with a women on there then we switched to Facebook. After she claimed her debit card does not work in south Africa. She starts the old she needs to send money from her account to another bank account likely mine and have me send her the money through western union. This is a well known old scam I didn't accuse her of the scam but did say she would be best to not have a relative do that do to south African scams.

Then cut and paste a link to a write up about it. I never heard from her again before it was chatting 1 or twice a day. My one problem with the site is I msg people who use the 4 or 5 star think to rate me after seeing my profile. The site lets me know so I msg them I never receive a response except from the said scammer I wrote about above. And even with that she sent it on a Thursday and I didn't get it until Saturday.

So how come the site held her msg to me for 3 days. I'm not a paying member and would become one but I feel the msgs don't get to people. I figured I would try the free part first. Another thing I notice is some women filter out short msgs. I send short ones because they can read my profile and see if they are even interested then I will send longer ones. I feel most on these sites are far to picky and super fiscal. I'm handsome, fit, educated, not an **** or dead beat and yet even women who claim to have the same interests never respond back?

I would not pay to use this site. I think as a whole when people use these sites they should try to be realistic. There is no one person who will be 100% perfect.