Match.com

I joined this site for 3 months, and had a nice complete profile which I updated frequently. Every day, the site sends you a list of women that are called "daily matches". These women are similar in some ways to what you're looking for. You can then choose to send them a message. You can also search yourself, wink at people or favorite them. What's good about this site, is the amount of people that are online. I managed to be in communication with about 6 people in the 3 months, and I met 2 of them for dates.

The bad is that the vast majority of people on here are not members, and since you need to be a member to send messages, most of the letters sent will never be replied to. I sent over 100 messages in the 3 months, and they weren't like "hey what's up, I like your profile", they were nice letters. Anyway I got less than 10 responses. So you need to be extremely active to get results. Also there were 2 people I was communicating with that turned out to be scams. Asking for me to send them money.

I did meet 2 people in person, it didn't work out, but it's better than some other sites. You need to watch out for scams. 3/5

For:
Huge database of people signed up
Met some people in person

Against:
Can't tell if someone is a member, or just browsing for free
Scams, people asking for money