A meeting place for attached, married women and men to explore discreet relationships with one another. MarriedButPlaying.com is not a casual dating site, but a place where people who are unhappy in their current relationship can explore alternative company.
The site is aimed at married people looking for fun outside their main relationship, as well as couples looking for a third partner in their relationship. The site has been online since 2008.
Their small community of 9,200 members are very up front about the types of relationship encounters they seek. Though the membership pool is rather limited; if you are looking for a larger community, Ashley Madison or Untrue.com would be a better choice.
On signing up you will be taken straight to the upgrade page; however you can remain as a guest account holder (free access), which will allow you to browse profiles, send flirts, and add members to your “naughty black book”. To actually initiate contact with a member, however, you will need a paid membership.
Once inside, the site offers a range of standard features including:
- Basic and advanced profile searching
- Rapid match (lets you rate photos "Yes", "No", "Maybe")
- Chat rooms - for open chat with other members
- Invisible Mode - Surf the site incognito
Both the chat rooms, and forums require upgrading and are not accessible to guests. Once you have a paid membership, you can send emails and instant messages.
Paying members also have the option to surf the site anonymously (this mode lets you view profiles without alerting the other person).
The site does have active moderation, so be sure to complete your profile in full. If you do choose to add photos, it is possible to keep these private and only accessible to those you allow (people you've added to your "little black book").
Webcam communication is also available with a paid membership. Most of the members on MarriedButPlaying.com are male, so women will really have a lot of choice in partners.
The initial questionnaire is quite lengthy and really gives you the opportunity to express yourself and your desires.