eHarmony

Not enough realistic matches! A large percentage (40-50%) are either "outside your settings" (which are NOT tightly set...the entire country and an age span of 12 years!), or more annoyingly, indicate on the profile that they were "last active over a month ago". In other words, they're not even there anymore, people. Not checking their eHarmony, or left the site entirely, or only "joined" for the free weekend.

I question the "matching" process, also. Because I indicated my religious practice as "Christian, THAT was the major matching that happened.

Even though I didn't indicate it was "very important" to me to only meet other Christians, eHarmony for some reason decided that's what they'd send me. People whose overriding interests center on all things Christian, and not much else.

Even when I "relaxed" all my parameters (except for making non-smoking "very important"), I still got a lot of matches that weren't remotely congruent. Really not at all as advertised. I'd save your money, this is NOT the way!