I would avoid Connecting Singles at all costs! I am a Female, and because I chose not to put a photo up, for personal reasons, as I wanted to remain anonymous, I received abusive messages from Male members, and when I sent emails to the Admin complaining about these, I got totally ignored, and nothing whatsoever was done to the abusers! Then, one day when I tried to log on, I found that MY profile had been Deleted without any explanation! I sent Admin FOUR separate emails, asking for an explanation, and for my profile to be re-instated, but got No Reply! I would not, under any circumstances, recommend this site to any genuine person!