BlackPeopleMeet

I just broke up with a guy whom I met in Feb on Match.com but he was also on BPM. We dated for 9 months and broke up on Christmas day after I found out he never got off either of the sites and had been seeing (and sleeping with) other women. I have to admit I was an easy victim because I have not dated in years and did not know the games that are being played out there. I thought he was a nice guy. When I meet him he was talking about going to school and upon my prompting started this summer. He is in the army reserve but not making a lot of money. I was told he had injured his back and couldn't do the same line of work anymore but was looking for a job. I was a straight sucker...I was helping him out financially even after he got a part-time security job. I didn't know he was having me help with his bills so he could wine and dine other women on these sites. He never had money (so he said) to take me out like he wanted to and that he would make it up to me. Well we know how that ended...the dumb Ass didn't have enough since to delete his text msgs or lock his phone. Needless to say my Christmas was not very merry. I hope none of you have or will run into him because he is still active on these sites. All I can say is buyer beware.

I have learned a very valuable lesson about not only online dating but just men in general. I know there are some good guys out there. So Lesson Learned....If they say they are in between, just lost, out of disability, a student, reserves, drive a nice car that never has a full tank of gas, still live in a one bedroom apartment with a TV the size of a wall but can't pay their cell phone bill...run the other way they are full of crap!!!!

Ladies, if a man has pictures of his car that's a red flag. He is likely running from the repo man and hoping you like his car enough to help him save it.