BlackPeopleMeet

You have to jump through hoops to login. Their "secure" login is totally ridiculous. I don't even have to go through all these steps to log into my bank account. This is totally ridiculous. Sometimes you can barely make out the pictures you have to click on to get access to YOUR account. If by any chance you miss one picture, you have to do it again. After all that, if by any chance you did not enter your password correctly, you have to go through the whole process all over again. I have complained to the site managers about it and I'm sure others have too but they still have that stupid login security check. Very frustrating when all you want to do is go read a message.

The people on there are always the same people. Very few new subscribers. Haven't made any real connections. I've had my account for years but this time as soon as my paid subscription expires, I'm closing my account for good and NEVER going back. Another thing that's really stupid, you get emails for members to check out but when you click on the link, it takes you to that stupid login screen and once logged in, you are on the regular home page. If you want to find that member you want to check out, you still can't find him....the username search never recognizes those usernames which leads me to believe they are all made up. On the positive side, I like that you can view the history you had with another member. the price is good too...but still not worth it. I definitely do NOT recommend this website.

too many old chicks and ugly girls, fat girls and women with alot of kids and they keep talkng down on us black men the fact is no matter what site there on or were they are in public some how they always end up with the no good men go figure

MaCartney7 womanizer mooch druggie and sex **** addict from PA and NY. Claims to have been in the music industry. Is serial dating and it gets worst dont believe me just watch....

It would be good if somehow you can have a open chat with all so you can see how a person interact with other's because a lot of guys on here are just playings games having a ball dating different women, when a lot of us are on here to meet a person who want a real relationship. not to mention people are paying for something better than this. I ws on for a month and got off ,later i tried again and it is the same people browsring

I am single, well educated, great position, and have an outstanding work record. College educated, above average in appearance, well dressed and can hold a wonderful conversation about most subjects. I am good company , masculine, and not a " Diva Dude". I have always placed my ladies needs above my own....so why is it that a well put together man has such a horrible time on this site. I have left, returned, and left again, and returned once again. Match.com, E harmony and others really are just for caucasions and most certainly not for an African American male. I simply would like to meet a beautiful active Black woman for serious relationship. It appears this is not the place.

I have been on this site for over a year and have never had a date. I do not get anymore flirts or anything. I will not be returning. The men on here play too many games. They send me flirt and when I send one back there is no reply. This site is horrible. It is not worth the money.

When I read some of the comments on here it is funny to me. The complaints women have about men I can say women do the same things. Women complain about men sending flirts? I can't tell you how many flirts I've gotten from women!

One time I even got a flirt from a woman who's profile said on it ("Don't send me any flirts!") LOL

Women say men lie about their real appearance or post old photos. OMG, you won't believe how often that happens to us guys too! Women say the men lie too much. WOW, are you kidding me? I have been lied to on a few occasions. I even went on a date with a woman whose profile said she had "zero" kids and turns out she really had FOUR! And of course we love the women who say they are a "few extra lbs", when they are like 80-100 lbs overweight. Women say the men don't have jobs? I can say the exact same thing about some of the women I have talked to on BPM. Trust me the recession didn't just affect men! There are plenty of women whom have gotten laid off too. So ladies, before you get so down on the guys, you all need to realize it's no picnic on our side of the fence either.

I appreciated Logi's story (post from April 10, 2011). Men often leave the fact that they are married out of the conversation, and that's really sad. However, I can't understand why she would believe that a man she met on the internet with a name like Issac Hayes was serious unless that bad mothafu(shut yo mouth) showed some ID.

How is this site not racist??? What if I started a site for only Mexicans? Whites? Am I not allowed to date a black woman? Give me break. I sell real estate in Arizona and what if I only sell to one race? I'm happy to discuss this with anyone.

I really liked black people meet... and I'm embarrassed about my story, but here goes. When I first registered to the website, I loved it. Black people meeting and greeting, I enjoyed all the emails. I eliminated some of my admirers and remained in contact with two males. The male that I really connected with, lived in my area. He marked his status as "single and looking for a serious relationship". So I was excited to meet him. We met and went on a nice date to a movie. Things progressed within the month as we continued to see each other. One day I received an email from his wife threatening me to leave him alone, so I did. Months passed and just as summer came around, I noticed this man driving past my house several times as I was leaving out. He called me and said he was no longer with his wife, but I told him the only way we could go out again is if he could prove his marital status.

I did a Google search on this guy and found an article or transcript from dateline MSN... a transcript from the Count Down with Keith Olbermann Show. It appears that several women complained about this man on DontDateHimGirl.com. In the transcript Keith Olbermann is interviewing the owner of DontDateHimGirl.com. In the interview, she explains that several women have complained about this particular man.. His name is Isaac Hayes and he goes by other names like Josias West. He pretends to be Jamaican/Rastafarian. I just feel the site attracts married men, and it's shocking to know these men are willing to pay monthly fees just to play around with women. I'm sure there are good men on the site, but the bad ones need to be gutted out. I haven't been back to Black People Meet in 4 years.