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Cost 1 Month $34.44
Average
Popularity 19,000 active users
Very low
Gender make-up More men
(5 to 1)
Better for women

BDSM.com lets you hook up with people into fetishes, kinks, domination, role-playing, masochism and more. They have members willing to explore the wilder side with you. It's a pay site & part of the Friendfinder Network.

BDSM's aim is to help you fulfil a fantasy of domination, bondage and the like. It is very popular among that group, and is one of a few aimed at people wanting to explore this kind of action.

Like other Friendfinder sites, there are lots of features, including webcam chat, ability to upload video, chat rooms and instant messaging.

A drawback of the free account is that it restricts the amount of information you can view on profiles, especially photos.


Fetish Community

This is not your everyday dating website. Clearly BDSM is only suitable for enthusiasts of this fetish.

It's a tight knit group of people and most there claim that they're very happy with it. BDSM reports that it has more than 3 million members. Though I wasn't able to discover people in my neighborhood - unless they were masked!

A free access account gets you in and lets you browse. But a disadvantage soon becomes apparent in that it restricts the amount of information you can view on profiles, especially other people's photos.

If you are prepared to travel a bit it should be easy to find someone the same tastes and interests.


Membership

There are several levels of membership. With the free membership you can browse, upload your saucy pictures, hotlist your favorite members. You can only message people who've already contacted you first - and they have to be paid up.

Paid memberships give you access to features like viewing videos, saving searches and searching by distance. Without a paid membership your ability to contact others is quite tightly restricted. You can wait and see who'll notice you, or just opt for an upgrade and start messaging others right away.

You can find members by roles they'd like to play in, for example submissive or dominant.



The other disadvantage of the free account is that it restricts the amount of information you can view on profiles, especially imagery.

Unique to this site, members can search by roles they'd like to play with prospective matches. Plus, right on the home page, you can search by your favorite fetish, like bondage, handcuffs, etc.

If you're looking for a wider selection of people, BDSM has a bigger sister site called Alt.com which is also worth exploring.


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    SuckerdJune 25th, 2019

    Avoid

    STAY AWAY..Don't waste your money..99% of the women on there are fakes and scammers that want your hangouts,email info,whatsapp and phone number in the 1st message.I should have bought surf and turf and saved the money..I shut off auto renew so I don't miss wasting more money..I have better luck on personals .I gave it a AVOID rating.Buyer beware.
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    zippyjetJune 23rd, 2019

    Below average

    Awkward sign up process. Bank / CC company may decline because of type of service. Contacted customer sercice which is outsourced. Hard to understand agent. Call wait time too long and this was a Sunday evening around 1730 hours EST. On hold loop with recording. That call volume unusually heavy. You have to navigate several steps to opt out of auto renewal. If this a sign of things to come, I will probably bot join. Upside? Seems like many options but may involve long distance travelling. But, not sure if all profiles real.
BDSM.com 1 2 A review of BDSM.com. BDSM.com lets you hook up with people into fetishes, kinks, domination, role-playing, masochism and more. They have members willing to explore the wilder side with you. It's a pay site & part of the Friendfinder Network.