Asiame.com

This site broke up my marriage of 23 years because my husband decided to play single. I wrote this company to tell them he was a married man but they kept him on site any how good men should look here for women god only knows there is enough out here in the good ol usa.

I signed up for chnlove.com and then after i started receiving nice emails from girls and then i paid $25 for 4 credits, and i answered 4 gals,I sent my personal email in my letter asking girls to contact me directly, But i was surprised next day when i receive 4 emails back on same site with girls replying to my emails, I clicked to see the reply but.........scam;;; they are now asking me again for $25 TO read the replies!!!How can you trust such people who are there to eat up your hard earned money ....I think i am lucky that i paid by PayPal so no credit card given!!! Be careful while going to such scammers! Then i wrote to support and they replied girls don't know English so they cannot contact you directly and you have to pay another $25 to see their replies!!I think they have bogus profiles and they themselves generate replies to get clients!

hello i am a Chinese girl, i am a postgraduate student , so i usually browse foreign websites, to be honest , i want to marry an american gentle man, i also called on the chnlove.com. They ask me to pay 3000 RMB, as you know i am a student ,these is a lot money to me, so i want to find my MR,Right in my own way since i can speak some english, does anyone can give me some advice? Which online date website is better for me to find my true love?

This website is one of the most crooked ones out there. There's no privacy whatsoever. The girls' pictures are mostly saloon touched-up pictures which misguide you. If you list a girl as your favorite, most likely the agency will send you admirer letter without her knowing it at all. In many cases, the girls are paid hands to list their pictures just to fool you. That $6 one way email can add up quickly. Do not walk, run away from this website. It's a money gouging ploy by the collaboration between this HK portal and numerous Chinese agencies. I had requested to see those girls that accepted my cupid notes to no avail when I went to China. It's almost impossible to get in touch with these girls. Don't waste your time there, believe me. I would have given it no star weren't it required me to give a minimum of one star to post!

I will agree with most of the posts here. I was a member of the site for ~6 months and was communicating with a lady during that time. I tried to get direct contact with the lady, but like the other posts was given all the same answer: too shy, English is not good, etc. I asked for some childhood photos was given the excuse that the photos were at her parent's place...but the darn thing was...she visits her parents almost every other week! And all the photos she sends to me are of her alone, no friends, no family....

Does anyone know of a real website where you can meet real Chinese women who are serious about finding a mate?

I have used CHNlove for the past few months ...Here's my take on it. The letters there are fluff to pass the time, don't spend cash you can't afford. Have some fun and try and get some gleam of who this lady is and what she is about. I know the responses are not always hers. I know some are though. She has sent me several messages written on paper she took in the bathroom with her cell phone. So these aren't doctored in the photo lab. Even all the pics in her profile are natural which is one reason I chose to write her... She looks great to me in these picture even better then the professional studio photos you see. That being said i am going to see her in Oct. I'm 40 she is 28 but i date 28 year old women here in Canada as well so it's no big deal. I'm not expecting love at first sight I'm hoping for friends at first sight and see how it goes. If she doesn't show I'm still going to have a great holiday.

A lot of men seem to think it's a scam when they go there and the lady doesn't love them like the letters. Maybe it's because she really doesn't like you when she sees you and you look like crap compared to your pictures.

As far as the dreaded "Hidden costs" or buy out from the Agency i have not asked her about this but i intend to. Also there is the "bride price" ordeal. I have heard this is more a custom than an actual exchange for cash much like the East Indian custom of bartering for your bride on the wedding day. Anyone have any experience themselves with this stuff?

Hey Guys, Not a total noob here, having lived in Thailand for the past several years, I have seen most of the scams out there. Most are the sugar daddy/sponsor scams. I'm not a specialist in any field, nor do I have the advanced education some of you claim to have. I do make good money, enough for living and saving, I've never gone without for what I need or want.

So this leads to myself asking for advice or even help if possible.....

I started to talk with Sophie, real nick name from Chinesekisses.com after a few days of talking via messages there; we decided to chat on msn and qq.

All of the chats are via the video, and she is 100% the same looking as her photo. She is 28 years old, I am 39 years old. The age difference is not a huge amount. I have been offered a new job in China, and I'm due to arrive next week. She asked me to fly into her city before I start work, and spend 2-3 days there, getting to know each other.

She has not talked about love or that other crap that I feel doesn't work online. She has always talked normal and seems to have enough education to get by in life.

So my concern:

1. China scams seem to be the same as Thailand, are there a few variations I should be watching for?
2. The chances that she is talking the same to others with the same intent and messages?
3. Do any of these websites offer a service to have them checked out in various degrees?
4. This might seem shady to a few of you, but I'm prepared for the flames about it as well.

Has anyone here talked with this person Sophie from chinesekisses.com?

If so I'd love to compare notes. I do not trust so easy, and would love to protect myself from a lot of the crap others seem to get doing this.

I guess the face to face meeting will show and tell me a lot, but precautions are the name of the day for me.
wwa_a_mark@hotmail.com

Love to hear your advice and experiences.
Mark

I think that just about all of you are a bunch of dumb ass's!! If you take the time to read the do's and don't on this site it tells you not! to do most of the things that you are all bitching about!! It tells you not to send money! Don't send expensive gifts! get pics! and get a web cam for your computer so you can see the lady face to face before you ever go to china!

And if you can't afford the few dollars they charge to translate and deliver your sorry ass letters get off the site! I'm sure that there are ladies on chnlove that will scam you if you let them, I had to sort thru about 20 ladies before I found one that I like, she doesn't look as good as she did in the pics on her profile but she is still a beautiful lady for her age (49). Do you look as good as the pics you put on your profile? I'm 57 and I don't need a 20 or 30 year old lady, and I'm sure they don't want an old man like me.

It's the same on all the web sites you have to be smart enough to sort them out!

I went to china in June of 09, my lady met me at the airport, she took me to my hotel so I could regroup and get some rest, she lived about 20 miles from the airport in Fushun, the next day she came and got me and took me all over the place. I met her friends, her brother and sister, aunts uncles mom and dad, it was great! I had a wonderful time! I stayed at her parents' house 6 of the 12 days I was in china. and yes I gave them some money, they are poor and they saved me a lot of money by letting me stay there, it didn't work out for us, but I made a lot of friends there that I will never forget. I'm writing to another lady now and I plan on going back this year to meet her. And again I had to sort thru them, and this time I found a beautiful 52 year old lady that doesn't look a day over 40. Good luck, be smart.

Nigel is crazy. This site is such a scam it's incredible. You'd be better off saving your money to spend on peep shows.