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I am not surprised that so many men have had a bad experience with Chnlove, they have only themselves to blame. These men who feel they have been duped are been very unrealistic to think that these women would ever be interested in any long-term relationship with them.

There is dishonesty in every walk of life, Chnlove I am sure has its fair share of dishonest people, the translators and these unrealistic westerners are only prolonging and encouraging the deception by thinking that these girls could be interested in having any involvement with these men. Yes the girls photos are enhanced, I am quite certain that these western men, put their best foot forward and are not been fully honest with Chnlove.

I have met three girls and two were somewhat comparable to their pictures and the other one was not. I found that these women were been truthful about their circumstances.

One topic that never seems to be mentioned is there is a tremendous cultural division between east and west and this difference will surface very soon. The girls are looking for security, we interpret this as the girl looking for money, then the man feels he is been shaken down and then begins to question the girls sincerity.

I think the chance of succeeding percentage wise is going to be directly relating to the compatibility of the two people involved and it is this compatibility that will ultimately make or break the relationship.

Men, wake up and realize that China has made leaps and bounds ahead of what most people believe there situation to be, yes there are vast sections of China that has to be developed, these people are nobody's fools and should be respected and treated as equals. I suspect that most men on this forum are looking for women to cook, clean, have sex with and have a good-looker on their arm. I have seen what the Chinese women have to choose from and it's not pretty. The western man by believing that these women would be interested in them are sending a clear message to the dishonest element that they are desperate and this is where the scam starts, the western men are complicit in the deceit.

I met a lady called Lili Shi and I must admit that she and I were untruthful with other and that is why it ended. I wish the best of luck to every well intentioned man and women who get involved with this site, to everyone else, shame on you.