Ashley Madison

Replied to Q @Q Hi Q, yes I couldn't agree with you more, regarding your July 27th comments. See my last comments. I'm slightly younger than you but the woman I met, while working here in Hawaii, is your age. Many women have commented to me on AM that they are impressed at how confident I am with what I want and how I've so openly described myself, including public pics. And the private pics... ummm... those have gotten extremely positive reviews. :)

But the bottom line IS to take the time to sell yourself, while being 100% HONEST. I gloss over female profiles that don't have a pic (and a face pic is not necessary, y'know the whole discreet thing) or just check the blocks. I love the thrill of chasing and catching a woman, but I at least need to know we're playing in the same ballpark; i.e., have some of the same likes & dislikes.

But aside from the "chase" there are so many sex-starved married women on AM that don't want Brad Pitt. They are somewhere in the average looking range and want insanely uninhibited sex with average looking men. They don't want to leave their husbands nor to have some clingy guy falling in love with them. So WAKE UP guys! Start communicating more and selling yourselves. The site works and I have fun there. Go after them and remember - the gorgeous women only get you into trouble and fights... ;)

And again, great comments Q!

Replied to katherinel @katherine l. No, girls being girls. It's girls the guys are screwing. Talk about fraud? Ha, include women at the top of the list. One minute they are innocent girls that never do anything bad, the next they're getting every hole plugged by random strangers.

Replied to Louise_3269 @Louise Are you kidding? There is no justification whatsoever for cheating in a marriage. Why stay married? If you have a sexless marriage, there is a deeper underlying problem. Do something positive for you both and seek out counseling to get to the bottom of what's really wrong.

This website is unbelievable. I didn't believe a friend when she told me about it, but yes Virgina, it exists. Why be married if cheating is Ok? Doesn't anyone respect one another as human beings at the very least, or are we all just objects to use and lie to at a whim?

Replied to Luci @Luci Luci, please stop judging people and grow up. You personify the typical, nut-crushing, American woman. Your comment regarding not being married if it's okay to cheat is comical. That's because you American women use sex and the means of landing your husband and then you turn it into a control tool for manipulating your husband. You're scared to death that if your husband ever got tired of his every-three-month handjob, his twice-a-decade blowjob, or his four-times-a-year intercourse (which probably entails you putting a towel on the bed and flopping on it on your back & waiting for him to do all the work with no encouragement or participation from you), then he'd realize he doesn't need you anymore. If you typical American women could ever realize that American men are the most giving, caring, willing to please you in bed people in the world, then you'd have happier marriages. Instead, you teach your daughters to start planning their weddings at six years old, believing in "the perfect man" from a Disney fairytale, knowing they're going to be as miserable as you one day. In reality, your little girls are going to follow your failed marriage model, which is teasing and manipulating men until you see the first signs of crows feet in the mirror, then finally picking out the best stud in the stable to geld. After "your ring" is in place, you plan to change the things you don't like about him and chase away all of his true friends (you are not that friend) through sexual manipulation.

But Luci, sleep uneasily tonight in the knowledge there are tens of thousands of Thai, Filipina, Russian, Japanese, Chinese, and other Eastern European women who would be supermodels in the US, willing (and trying) to sleep with your husband at every turn. So the internet, coffee shops, airports, and tons of other places are where these foreign angels are looking for your husband. And the truth is, us American men tell you ball-busting harpies that we're not attracted to foreign women, especially Asian women, because we don't want to hear your mouths any more than we have to. The truth is that EVERY American man has a true softspot for Asian women. It's only a matter of time...

Replied to Louise_3269 @Louise Yes, I know exactly how you feel. Life's too short and both of ended up with sexduds. What gives??? ~Maxx

Replied to Ziara @Ziara I agree...I found out my husband was on the site...and its sad how the cold hearted idiots out there just don't care about anyone but themselves.. We have a 5-month old baby girl..and just got married in july of 10' I just couldn't believe it, it's a pain that will always stay with me...

Replied to April @April I'm sorry, but how is it the fault of the website that your husband is on there? I'm not condoning his behavior. But maybe you should address HIM cheating and not the "cold hearted idiots out there who only care about themselves." Sounds like your husband belongs to that categorization. Stop playing the pathetic victim and stand up for yourself... AND your baby! Weak women only facilitate men acting like jerks.

Replied to Mike_2846 @Mike Well I am one of those women who signed up for Ashley Madison. I had 350 messages in 24 hours. I had to weed them down somehow, so I eliminated everyone that was more than 500 miles away from me (that was most). Then I decided I would reply to everyone that actually took the time to send me a message, not just ask for nude pictures. You would not believe the messages I got back. I was called the worst names imaginable, just for a simple "no thank you". The few decent seeming guys I did find were complete flakes. I just cancelled my membership because of too many nasty people, pic collectors, and flakes! I would recommend wasting your time with this site!

Replied to FemaleCustomer @Female Customer 350 messages in 1 day sound a bit ridiculous to me... I had less than that number in total after 3 months membership on the site. I totally agree there are idiots on there but I absolutely never reply to anyone if I am not interested in them. Cruel? Maybe.. But experience has taught me to regret doing so... I was thinking I was being polite sending a reply but in fact you just get into a pointless dialog that can turn ugly when the guy sees you don't want them.