Ashley Madison

I am a 50 year old woman who is loving this site. I lie about my age, and go for the tall hunky men in their 40s who are strong, virile and ready to please. I am currently involved with a barrister, an entrepreneur who loves tennis, and am having a torrid email exchange with a mystery man who is currently overseas (but is logged on all the time). The way he writes makes me positively quiver with anticipation. I know what I want, and look for the men who are confident. I will only answer emails from guys who meet a very narrow criteria, they must be tall, for starters. The amount of men who write me who are 5'10" is staggering. DELETE. Brutal, but I haven't got time to stuff around with anyone but those with whom there may be a chance of chemistry. This is not dating, people. Time is precious and I don't want long dinners, I want to be flung around a room, so to speak, left breathless and satisfied sexually. BUT, I do not like the fact that I can see when my suitors are logged on. It's a bit disheartening to come out of a hot and heavy encounter with a man, only to see him logged on 5 hours later.

The downside to this site is the endless supply of new flesh, and that goes both ways. I find it difficult to detach sometimes and I get depressed over this. My wonderful lover from July moved on, and I know he logs on every day and no doubt he has found many other women to conquer. He was truly magnificent, but cocky and aloof, and foolish me, I started to have feelings. I think he sensed this and it was 'bye bye'. I will keep going, though because I am loving the attention and I am having too much fun. Please people, try to read "Women's Infidelity" by Michelle Langley. Ladies, it will help free you of the guilt about not feeling sexual toward your husband. Men, it will help you understand the female psyche. Don't think your wife doesn't want sex. Your wife just doesn't want sex with you. I know this, it is how I felt and I feel liberated now that I can express myself sexually in new ways. I do not think being with married men makes you immune to STDs. Marrieds are having more partners than ever, so please be careful out there!