Ashley Madison

None of the reviews on this site tell the ages of the reviewers. So it may be that younger crowd has more luck? I am male, 42 y/o. I've been on the site for 6 months with zero real life connections. Lots of emails have gone back and forth at a huge expense by the way.

Now, I have been told I am attractive, so I am no troll. But 90% of contacts have been from bots. The folks I thought were real made one contact and then nothing. So I know there's probably cold feet. I get that. But this is what I found interesting. You have to email the woman. Free for women, but men pay through the nose. As soon as your credits begin to run out, you magically get a LOT of activity from several attractive "members." When you renew your credits, they disappear. No more contact.

Even the normal contacts I've received I spend the credits to email them and then no more contact or response to my email. Which makes me wonder if when you've been dormant a while, they bot you with a contact to get you to spend some credits. None of the profiles are filled out and very few have pictures (even the blurry ones they offer to protect your anonymity.

That being said, the interface is a pain to use. Half the time, you're showing new messages when they are old messages. Who knows if emails even go through! Maybe that's why there are no responses. Why should you pay for non delivery of emails??

Read about all of AM's unscrupulous past activities and you too should be skeptical. I have gone on traditional free dating sites like POF and met dozens of married women that I have hooked up with. Far cheaper than AM and much more effective (plus you get to know their sexy side, instead of the one-word responses you get on AM before you hook up).

Here's my advice. Use the traditional sites. Brush up on your ability to speak/email a woman, pay attention to her profile and understand what turns her on (it's not **** pics, by the way) and you will be swimming in married women. They don't get this attention at home. By the second date, you're both having a great time in bed.

But don't believe the AM bullshyte. Don't take my word for it, search about their history of false profiles and you'll see what I mean. I spent hundreds of dollars with nothing to show for it.

PS: Many of the "female" reviews I've read about the AM website don't sound like real people by the way. Is AM posting fake reviews? From what I've read about them, it's a definite possibility.