t ConnectingSingles
30 Ratings 1.93 / 5
Ease Of Use
Quick Facts
Cost Free
Popularity 82,000 active users
Gender make-up More men
(3 to 1)       
Better for women

Connecting Singles is a dating and forum website that's free to use. In addition to being a dating site, Connecting Singles has a multitude of other options to pass the time including quizzes, chat rooms, forums, profile reviews, event lists, all of which members can freely access.

ConnectingSingles is a completely free online dating site for singles.

You can browse profiles for free, sign up for free and contact other prospective matches for free. Locating others is quick and easy with the help of the site's area/zip code locator.

Who's Nearby?

There is a simple tool that let's you find others in the same locale or expand their horizons and search through international profile listings. Members can not only make free contact, they can use the Send Flowers option to let others know they're interested. Users have bookmark and block options, along with the ability to see who's been viewing their profile lately.

The huge range of features and options on the site does make it a bit bewildering at first. Though things like polls, games and picture rating do keep people engaged.

Even though you might not find your next spouse there this is quite a popular site. There's enough activity there that you should at least be able to strike up a few conversations with some interesting people.

Even though you might not find your next spouse there this is quite a popular site.

With no costs to worry about, ConnectingSingles a nice option for those just curious about the world of online dating. There are no gotchas or binding contracts to sign. The site is easily navigable and offers members the chance to get involved and mingle via forums and blog postings.

By Tara Miller

The good

  • Free to use
  • Loads of features
  • Decent number of profiles

The bad

  • Confusing layout
  • Technical problems
Rating from 30 customers

5 Star: (5)

4 Star: (3)

3 Star: (0)

2 Star: (2)

1 Star: (18)

Total 30 Ratings
4 Reviews
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    BGHSeptember 5th, 2017


    Dusty photos. The women on that site mostly have not logged into their accounts since the Truman administration.

    It's a shame because it is one of the few sites I find with a mix of ethnic women.
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    STUMarch 13th, 2016


    They have a really bad attitude, deleting perfectly good profiles just because a man is in shorts.

    There is no way to contact these people and they really are complete control freaks.

    The site will never grow with this attitude.
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    VeryMuchConfusedSeptember 17th, 2012


    What I cannot understand is why ex members diss this site, then return with fake profiles, trolls, and cause trouble. If you do not like the site stop stirring, and leave it for good.
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    sherry_4768January 15th, 2012


    This is the worst dating site in the world, my account was deleted for no reason. I joined the site a few hours ago and it was deleted seconds ago.
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    Linda_4713January 4th, 2012


    Just have a question. My id from this site was romantic28 but got deleted. I don't understand why. I have lots of people scamming me for money whom are still there. As a matter of fact everyman I talk to say the same thing that they get scammed by women everyday and their sick of it. Why do they allow this to happen? Why punish the good/honest people? Why do they allow the vindictive people on the site?
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    Rob_4656December 23rd, 2011


    Connectingsingles would have to be the worst dating site on the net, not only did i find for myself personally that there are so many fake profiles but the web administrators will delete your profile for no reason at all! I hadn't even done nothing wrong, i wasn't abusive on the forums, i just tried to log in 1 day and found my whole profile deleted, no reason was ever given, this has happened on 4 separate occasions. I wholeheartedly agree with the other negative comments, it's a pathetic site run by fascist morons, and i hope somebody shuts them down. I will never waste my time with them again.

    glass_sliverJanuary 5th, 2012


    Replied to Rob_4656 i totally agree with you i have been a victim of vicious attacks that's why i cancelled my profile i am now so happy i did.
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    incognitoMarch 11th, 2011


    Connecting Singles is plagued with fake profiles. Reporting fake-profiles to the website goes unnoticed. Forums are generally the same users who become aggressive towards any new user reports of a regular forum poster will also go unnoticed. Website will delete anyone's profile that makes a report. I have found the users and the website completely a waste of time. You get what you pay for and in this case it is not worth the price of admission.

    venusApril 1st, 2011

    Above average

    Replied to incognito
    That's Ironic as I clearly remember you being on the site last night, crying foul loud and clear over an idiot. I also remember how we circled around you trying to make you feel better and protecting you from that member...To the rest I say what a bunch of sour grapes! Whaaaa!! I have been on the site for a year, met several good guys and made a bunch of friends! The forums rock and are hilarious. I get a good laugh every day. When I was struggling with an issue, I found members reached out and really were there for me. I think sometimes people expect a dating site to solve all their worldly problems. How unrealistic. Grow up!!! Sounds to me like a bunch of disgruntled banned members (rightly so) on here...To anyone reading I would caution to take these comments with a whopping grain of salt.

    demonfairy_3588April 4th, 2011


    Replied to venus @venus I have been on connecting singles a year. I have met several people from the site, made a lot of good friends. It is a wonderful site, full of very nice people. Every now and then a few trouble makers show up, we call them trolls, connecting singles deals with them and any members fairly. Just have fun, enjoy the site! Come see us you hear!
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    R_McADecember 6th, 2010


    For what ever reason CS stocks the site with fake members to post in the forums. If you complain about the rude behavior of theses fake profiles you get harassed by the moderators. Some of the problem personalities have been on the site for over three years posting abuse of others without the slightest disciplinary action taken against them. A friend speculates this is being done by the website owners to create the appearance of more traffic for Google advertising banners. Whatever is going on it is annoying and unneeded.

    mikygrDecember 8th, 2010


    Replied to R_McA
    It's more than annoying and manipulating, it's a real impudence, a fraud, to see how the "today events"-forums are managed: There is a four-members Zionist clique (self declared though) in there which immediately will jump on your head if your opinion is not conform to theirs and you impede theme doing their "duty in there" (this was wordy spoken out by one of this totally Zionist-Racist element, probably by mistake, but he wouldn't give ever an answer about his "duty there"...).

    Instead they will start insulting in most primitive way, jumping and laughing around instead of answering posts, showing primitive cartoons to put you down in the eyes of the others. If it happens to get fed up with all this personal insults and you start giving back, you'll be reported and soon "banned" without any explanation. It seems that they are well organized amongst themselves and the management. Maybe this clique is a bit bigger, I was only close 2 months there, what I know is that other people were thrown out for the same reason. But this four seem to be UNTOUCHABLE, whatever they let out and is proven that it's always them starting insulting, lie and even systematically manipulating your posts. They seem to be "experts" in that, you'll find them day by day and for many hours in there, and this since some years now...

    This all is not out of my fantasy: 7. Dec. started a long forum about this matter, read it if interested, you'll see that most people got fed up with these practices and wouldn't even more participate in forums with actual topics. A lady in there described it even more detailed.

    My advice to you: If you are mainly interested in exchanging some thoughts about today's going on topics (as I did), just keep far from this site; it's a real FARCE finally. But if you want to date and/or participate in "jokes" and "dating and relation.
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    ObjectiveUser_2861October 30th, 2010

    Above average

    This is an example of the disgruntled users who "got in trouble" trying to ruin Connecting singles with bad reviews. They even bragged about it. Make up your own mind about the site. If you like to talk to others without it costing a penny, it's a great site. I made some good friends across the U.S. and Asia...and never had a problem with the site. There are many others that feel like I do...check out the free forums and see.

    silkDecember 4th, 2011


    Replied to ObjectiveUser_2861 @ObjectiveUser It's a stupid site, most of the members are illiterate use offensive language and the "Poet's corner" what the heck is that? They post such pathetic poems and the Poets think of themselves as the chosen ones! It's quite funny I read a poet writing quote.. "Be careful what you say here in the Poet's corner remember the world is watching you"..........!!!! Which world? In what age are these delusional ego centric people living? The World is watching them? Why is the World concerned with these lyrically challenged people writing somewhere on a dating site in the virtual reality is pretty much beyond my comprehension. It did make me grin tho'.
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    ObjectiveUserOctober 29th, 2010

    Above average

    I have been on Connecting singles for two years and never once had my profile deleted, and neither did anyone else who didn't break their rules regarding polite behaviour. Those that get banned are those who get a kick out of rude and lewd behaviour, insulting others, and acting like kindergarten bullies. Because they want to offer their service for free, it unfortunately opens the door for anyone to join and put up a fake profile. Romance scams are nothing new; they have just found a fertile venue for it: online dating sites.

    I came to this site because the person who posted above bragged about trying to ruin Connecting Singles with "bad reviews" for they didn't like being "banned". Just as children are told to go sit in the corner when they are misbehaving, so it is on a social forum when you just can't act like an adult.
ConnectingSingles 1.93 30 A review of ConnectingSingles. Connecting Singles is a dating and forum website that's free to use.